Hi Beth,
Thank you for posing a very good question. At our school, we listen to and accept suggestions from the parents, however, going commando for toilet learning is not something we would ever accept, not only because it is unsafe and unsanitary to spread urine and fecal matter in the children's and adult's common areas, but having the child expose their private area violates their right for privacy.
We help children get comfortable using the toilet while in diapers, and once they show the signs that they understand the whole process of discharging their bodily fluids in the toilet by going, at least, pee-pee every time they sit on the toilet, and when we also notice they end up with dry diapers after long periods of time, we agree with the parents to switch diapers to the training underwear (they are a bit thicker at the bottom). Once a child starts wearing the training underwear, we take them to the bathroom every 30 minutes to an hour, it depends on the individual needs. We do face a few accidents here and there, but mostly in their thick training underwear, but children, eventually, learn not to have those accidents at all.
Commando-style training is something suitable for an in-home use, not at school where there is a group setting.
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Ranum Magellan
Co-Founder
Arcadia Playschool Inc.
Arcadia CA
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Original Message:
Sent: 02-23-2023 11:30 AM
From: Beth Storer
Subject: Toilet Training
Good Morning,
I am struggling with something and I would love to have your input! In our center, we have always worked with the families on however they choose to go about toilet training their kiddos... More and more families are wanting to go with the commando method. My concern is that at least when they have underwear on, the underwear catch the chunks from BMs and absorb some of the urine. With children going commando in the center, we have children having accidents with their BM falling out of pant legs and on the floor... This is too much for me, the urine is much easier to clean up and sanitize the carpet ... What is your policy? I cannot find anything in licensing or from the public or environmental health regarding this. What are your thoughts?
I greatly appreciate your input!
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Beth Storer
Director
Laramie County Community College Children's Discovery Center
Cheyenne WY
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