"Veronica, I'm glad you asked. I've heard this question from several directors, and I've also heard new teachers who are men ask, "why are they going to so much trouble to keep me out of the bathroom? What do they think will happen?" It has made a number of men I've talked to reluctant to stay in the field, even though they are great teachers. Children need as wide a variety of role models as we can find for them, so making the field welcoming for all teachers, not just the ones who are similar to the ones who are already in our centers, is really important.
I am also from MN so I know that your new teacher has been through a background check. Is there a reason you've hired a teacher that you don't trust to be with young children?
That said, I've also experienced parents being leery of men helping their kids with the bathroom. Somehow we get caught in the assumption that the only reason a man would want to be in our amazing field is so that he could molest children. There is absolutely no evidence that that is true, but if you think your parents might raise this kind of concern you might want to put safeguards in place for the sake of your teachers - ensuring that there is always another teacher in sight or earshot to vouch for that teacher in case an issue comes up. This should happen for all teachers, regardless of gender identity.
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[Meg] [Thomas]
[Early childhood consultant
Co-facilitator for Diversity and Equity Interest Forum
[St Paul ] [MN]
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Original Message:
Sent: 06-25-2020 08:17 AM
From: Veronique Liebmann
Subject: Preschool male teachers
I have a new male teacher joining my preschool class next fall. I am very interested to find out what policies you have in your centers in regards of all bathrooms related needs. Thank you for sharing.
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Veronique Liebmann
Minnetonka MN
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