Ms Boling,
This to me sounds like the district needs to be providing and paying for an adult one on one assistant for this child. I would document, take notes of all incidents of perceived aggressive behavior (do not put any subjective descriptions simply say: 9 a.m. Jane Doe took hand and hit John Doe on arm, 10 a.m. Jane Doe with both hands pushed John Doe and John Doe fell to ground, it would also be good to have a narrative, but only say what happened, nothing extra,) and call an IFSP/IEP and request additional support from the district or what we called in California the regional center.
This is not just for the benefit of the other students, but the student. The student needs to learn appropriate social interaction skills in order to fully benefit from being in a classroom with his/her peers, if students are afraid of the student owing to perceived by other students as aggressive behaviors, the student is losing out on valuable socializing opportunities. The student needs support as soon as possible.
Lark
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Lark Sontag
MA, Early Childhood Education
Alumna Pacific Oaks College
Trainer, Adjunct Early Childhood Education Faculty, and Early Childhood Education contributor to 30seconds
New York Metro
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Original Message:
Sent: 01-12-2019 08:38 PM
From: Kathie Boling
Subject: Supporting Parent Concerns when a child w/ special needs/behavioral concerns is enrolled
I'm hoping that some of you have experienced similar circumstances of striving to be an inclusive preschool for all children and the challenges of some parents not supporting this. Our teachers and additional therapeutic support staff are assisting a new child exhibiting challenging behaviors in the preschool classroom. We have communicated with all families of inclusion support observations/services that are ongoing in the preschool. We never breach confidentiality but some parents are very focal that this child should not be enrolled in the preschool. There have been some incidences that the children are bumped or pushed. We report all incidences to the individual parents. There have been several complaints filed against our center by the parents. Investigations report with no findings. Our center is dedicated to providing care and education to all children and we are struggling because others don't understand our choice. Your insight and strategies are appreciated.
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Kathie
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